Separation (Judaai)

This is the word which everyone hates a lot but yet everyone need to face this sometime in life
and to handle that situation is the ultimate hard.
Firstly I am not at all talking here judaaai related to lovers 'only'
But yes they also come under the category of this.

 Separation always hurt us a lot and it hurts alot when its instant bcoz if u know the separation time u can somewht prepare urself for that

and yes I really  like to salute all the girls who leave their houses and seperates with their family after a long journey of life.

What to do when you are not prepared for that :-
1) Dont loose the situation just built the confidence more that what almighty is doing is doing for our best
2) As possible as much dont make the seperation seperation but try to ommunicate with ur loved ones evrytime

"I would really like to mention here the people who are doing job outside their home''

Dont evr forget your parents, Come on Do Video Calling (Its 3G and broadband time) otherwise
Call them twice in a day, atleast once a day.
It will give them the utmost happiness by hearing your voice and your well being and vice  versa
both side can feel pleasure.

and some says that my family cant come to me and live with me, they will not adjust
arey yar tell me first by reading the above sentence again
that your parents who have brought you up and make you what you are today and they will not wish to live with you due to their adjustments
I will say to them
yaar ek baar puch kr to dekho k
 mummy papa apka ghar  ready hai , apki bahu , apke pota poti is waiting for their dadi dada, we are nothing with you, we love you a lot.we need you, plz live with us( plz note that if you want to be with them after complette settlement otherwise anytime you can call them)
den i think no parents will ever ever deny
(arey isi khushi k liye to dey were waiting for a long)

Leave the society and what others are doing, you are answerable to you only man..
Is janam me jo institution bna hai Mummy papa se...Vo to jitna bda rhe utna ghajab :).


and the second context which i would like to talk is friendship seperation
"First bitter truth is that you can;t live with your friend always like family but yes you can keep them always in your heart
and remember heart is the place whre god resides".

So Life me friend milenge bichdenge, bhot pain hga but u have to carry this pain somehw,
the only solution what i can see is make as less no of friend as you can(hre i am talking abt the best friend who  will be going to stay in ur heart, come on yar heart can't be big that it can store many ;)
and
yes never loose that best friend anytime Ready to do anything for him or her dats what friendship rule is.
and try to maintain contact in any conditn with them as u need a shoulder to cry and u need a persn other than ur family to talk anuything regrding anything so Maintain contact.



So always try to curb the separation as much as you can..( without even thinking single time that other is not doing his part ...u have to do urs dats it)..:)
and
third context lovers separation( I think movie and songs tells all abt that i have nthng to say
on that big pain...