Balance "in Life" (Santulan)

I put those inverted commas as till now first thought of this balance word will lead to the balance in mobile..thanks to telecom ..;)

But yes its as necessary in life to move on as necessary in your sim to chat on.

and yes Hard to maintain whether its between 

your professional and personal.

your love life or friendship

your friends or family

your work or your interest

your growth or your assignment.

your health or your taste

your choice or your necessity

Going ahead with one of them cant solve the purpose so there is a need of balance b/w these two.

well maintaining balance can be pretty much easy if we know evrything before hand. Unbalancing mostly happens at the last time.

If we decide evrything clear cut much earlier then maintaining the balance will be:-

Aaj ka plan tha to frnds ke sath jana hi jana hai, kal jaynge kahi pe family sath and vice versa (family v/s friends balance)

I cant eat rice that means i cant (Health v/s taste balance)

I need to do something other than my regular monotonous work then i have to ( work v/s interest balance)

Need a Car but Don't want to spent unnecessary money (choice v/s Necessity)

So Sometime you need to be rude.. all will say the same. but at the sametime u know u have ur decided decision and u r the only one responsible for it then Ki fark painda hai Koi Kuj vi soche te kuj vi karen.

For having a sound sleep you should have a free mind and that can only be if you have a habit of making decision with proper thinking at initial stage only then not to leave that decision till end.

there are lots of people surrounding you which may be jealous to you..ignore them ..take only positive energies from them also and make them more jealous then..;)

*I am not following above.May be after writing the same I will start following as we all know that is what which is absolutely correct for a tension free life.

Be honest and hardworking...then nothing can stop you ..

Parivartan ( Change ) Your One Decision

Well Change is a necessary evil.
Means You need it but at the sametime It will bring New challenges , new experiences in life
So Its necessary to have a change but yes be ready to break the glass afterwards...


Invited Changes are always welcomed as our own choice is involved in that whether we have to face any difficulties in future but we are solely responsible as Invitation is by us only...
Therefore that Invitation should be done after a deep thought of all the Outcomes.

and Its not necessary that Non Invited Changes are always harmful.Even they can be a great Surprise for us if God has bestowed his grace on us then Non Invited Changes are lovable.

You Know

Every day we learn from life, the people around us teaches us a lot everyday which is only contributing in building our Experience.

I just wanna say that after certain age We should be mature enough for taking Decision with all deep drilling of the Outcomes that can happen..
We should be able to judge, justify the things correctly What is better of us.
Frndzzz....I must say Listen to Everyone but do what your mind and heart says
Dont get influence by anyone so quickly and get involve in that monkey cheating race that if someone is doing this I will also try..if other one is doing that we will also do that...


Yes its correct we can get inspired by them but after judging. May be that would be suitable for them not for us and May be I should go for the related thing so that I can also succeed.

Don't do what Everyone is doing Do what everyone is not doing but after judging, after studying the positive consequences So that you can be recognised, you will be unique. Be sMaRt



Your One Big Decision is related to not You only , Your near ones, Your family , Your friends...
So Anna Rascalaaaa mind it....
;)

Separation (Judaai)

This is the word which everyone hates a lot but yet everyone need to face this sometime in life
and to handle that situation is the ultimate hard.
Firstly I am not at all talking here judaaai related to lovers 'only'
But yes they also come under the category of this.

 Separation always hurt us a lot and it hurts alot when its instant bcoz if u know the separation time u can somewht prepare urself for that

and yes I really  like to salute all the girls who leave their houses and seperates with their family after a long journey of life.

What to do when you are not prepared for that :-
1) Dont loose the situation just built the confidence more that what almighty is doing is doing for our best
2) As possible as much dont make the seperation seperation but try to ommunicate with ur loved ones evrytime

"I would really like to mention here the people who are doing job outside their home''

Dont evr forget your parents, Come on Do Video Calling (Its 3G and broadband time) otherwise
Call them twice in a day, atleast once a day.
It will give them the utmost happiness by hearing your voice and your well being and vice  versa
both side can feel pleasure.

and some says that my family cant come to me and live with me, they will not adjust
arey yar tell me first by reading the above sentence again
that your parents who have brought you up and make you what you are today and they will not wish to live with you due to their adjustments
I will say to them
yaar ek baar puch kr to dekho k
 mummy papa apka ghar  ready hai , apki bahu , apke pota poti is waiting for their dadi dada, we are nothing with you, we love you a lot.we need you, plz live with us( plz note that if you want to be with them after complette settlement otherwise anytime you can call them)
den i think no parents will ever ever deny
(arey isi khushi k liye to dey were waiting for a long)

Leave the society and what others are doing, you are answerable to you only man..
Is janam me jo institution bna hai Mummy papa se...Vo to jitna bda rhe utna ghajab :).


and the second context which i would like to talk is friendship seperation
"First bitter truth is that you can;t live with your friend always like family but yes you can keep them always in your heart
and remember heart is the place whre god resides".

So Life me friend milenge bichdenge, bhot pain hga but u have to carry this pain somehw,
the only solution what i can see is make as less no of friend as you can(hre i am talking abt the best friend who  will be going to stay in ur heart, come on yar heart can't be big that it can store many ;)
and
yes never loose that best friend anytime Ready to do anything for him or her dats what friendship rule is.
and try to maintain contact in any conditn with them as u need a shoulder to cry and u need a persn other than ur family to talk anuything regrding anything so Maintain contact.



So always try to curb the separation as much as you can..( without even thinking single time that other is not doing his part ...u have to do urs dats it)..:)
and
third context lovers separation( I think movie and songs tells all abt that i have nthng to say
on that big pain...

God Ke Sameep (Near to Bhagwan)

Hey,
In Life if you have not met the god till now then u can meet now ;)
Its very easy
I am not talking about that God will come in front of you from the idol or will
will simply ask:
Kaho Bacha kya Mangte ho
and then will fulfil ur wish
with a Tathastu.

But
what I belev is that if u think that u got something in ur life due to god
den u had met god.

and what I believe that everything happening to us good or bad all are due to that Ringmaster
(Yes we all are in a circus Whose Ringmaster is the GOD, whose all order we are following)

and one suggestion to all readers in my view:
u can't meet god by visiting temples
but yes most people take this in a way that I don't go to temple as he resides in my heart but the question is have u ever talk to the god who resides in ur heart ?
Temples only create environment of peacefulness or concentratation rest u have to talk to him in temple also
1) Visiting the temples with no prayers no thanks to god will not make ur discussion with ultimate power.
2) keeping God in heart and not talking to him anytime will also results like same above..

So the only thing I think everone should atleast do is simply saying a
Thanks to God every morning for making my last day beautiful.

PS: Evryday can't be good so u can complain that day instead of thanks also and  I believe then some day u will say
Thanks a Lot for the (Fantastic,Awesome, Faboulous and many more) day :)

The ultimate thing is talk to him.. He will listen...

Learn from Each Pal (1 min therapy)

Like Today is the special day, if you don't have any good or bad experience in today
My friend you have wasted one day of your life. bcoz life can't be ''lived'' in neutral

There should be some moment in the 24 hr which you can remember for years..
Break the monotony in life ,always try to do something new everyday..
Everyone eats,sleeps If this is the only thing you do den  u r missing not something but evrything.

at each night aftr dine just take a break from all day hustle and bustle and just close eyes and
rewind your whole day in just a span of 1 min..
That 1 min will surely show you your special unforgettable pal of the day and will bring a smile on your face which was with lots of tenshion before dat 1 min.
I can surely say when you close the eyes Bad experiences of the day will not come in dat 1 min
Why
Becoz they are already there in your mind with open eyes.

Instead of what that 1 min will do ,,It will weakens your memories of the bad experiece and dats what it meant for,,,

So1 min is so precious, live it ,enjoy it :)

Introduction of Me

I always thought of writing down something but never implemented
neway Its not too late right now I am implementing it. ;)


I am Vaibhav dats  it in my intro,
 Rest you will know in further headings or by my writing you will come to know..